I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[awest1217]

I know being around STBXW is hard, but it is important for the girls that you make it as pleasant as possible because that will help with some of their issues. If you can at least be cordial like you are to an aquaintance at work you don't particularly like, then it will help the girls.

As they get older, there are going to be more and more ceremonies or events where both of you will be at so it is important that you can at least be pleasant.

I know you have come a long way, which is awesome and hopefully once everything is final that will help even more.