MIL just rang. She said that she spoke to H and he told her that I rejected his offer of dinner (which I found out was her idea). H said that I made it clear to him that I had moved on and wanted nothing more to do with him.
I said to MIL that I was hurt that he was still with OW. She said that H told her that he didn't see a future with OW. That once he moves to his new job that they'll probably drift apart- yeah right!! However, MIL also said that he has not made any mention of wanting to reconcile but that she thought it would be good for us to at least be communicating. That's why she suggested the dinners.
H said to MIL that he would not ask me again. At this point I'm angry. Angry that he thinks that he's made an effort by asking me dinner. So what? Here's the facts: he is still with OW, he has not ever apologised for being with OW or spending all our money.
MIL wants to know if I've moved on so. If I have then she won't keep talking about this. I know this situation pains her too. I know she is trying her best to help.
What should I do?
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
