Well, No D/sep. papers were waiting for me when I got home. I am kind of surprised he didnt drop them off. Maybe the paper work is still in the process of getting drawn up????
However, He text me again tonight and said:"I understand if you wont speak with me, so call this lawyer (he left me the name and number) I need to move on also, also wondering if I can have the brown couch?"
I didnt respond about the lawyer thing, but I text and told him he can come get his brown couch on next tues.
Does anyone know if I have any legal obligation (in NY) to call his lawyer??? I highly doubt it! But just checking, cuz I have no intention on calling his Lawyer.
I am not going to spend the money to re-hire my old lawyer for myself until he sends me a sep. agreement that i can take to her and discuss. I never wanted a D, so I see no need to call his lawyer for any reason. I am not going to do the dirty work for him!!! (last time he left me-he brought the sep. papers to my house directly in hand, I dont see why he is not doing the same thing this time).
Why would he not just drop off the paper work he so desperately wants me to sign. Do I have to be present or something like that??? I know now it is obviously not a divorce petition - becuase those get "served" directly to you in person. I am assuming since he moved back in for 3 yrs - that we will have to go through another seperation period (I think its 6 months in NY) before a D can be requested.Is he trying to trick me into something??? TIPPER
