Something subtle jumped out at me... most people 'like' to talk about themselves given the opportunity. It sounds a little bit like W is scared to open up, maybe because it would cast doubt on the choices she's made before. Just a wild guess...
Some tweaking might be helpful, but it really sounds like things are moving on a forward path. Still, like she says, take it slow.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011