I think that's a common realization. The WAS is *not* the person we M. Maybe that person will come back, maybe not. If not, then it's up to us LBS to decide if this new person is someone we want to be with.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
