AJ - I just caught back up with your sitch. It sure sounds like things are improving between you and H. I read the list of things your H is doing for and around you and feel envious.

I wouldn't sweat that the talk did not happen on Sunday. I know it seems like he dismissed it for a tv show, but in the end, he was just not ready to have "the talk". I am sure it is stressing him out as much as it is you.

I like how you have been approaching the financial matters regarding a potential move versus staying. You are giving your H all of the info and allowing him to digest it all. This does not force him into anything but also gives him all of the info he needs to make a decision that is best for him.

Hope you are able to have the serious conversation tomorrow. I look forward to hearing about it.

Take care!


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated