I am so happy that you have broken free from the torment you were in. I could just feel it by reading your posts. It really took some courage on your part to go through with what you did.
Yeah, someone made some crass comment but by that time I was already in a church support group so I just dropped this one. I still think this site really helped so much and I'm so glad that I posted and got exellent advice from this forum.
Its such a psychological mind game. It's so important to understand the psyche of the divorcing spouse and head it off before it goes too far.
I think its good that folks like us come back and let those who are currently suffering know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. There are so many people out there with similar or worse experiences.
Yeah, I'm dating again and discovered that there are some wonderful women out there who really care.
Nice to hear all is good.
Best, Sleepy
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.