At the end is a new beginning

[ninelives]

Sorry to hear things have turned more sour Islander. Here is where you have to stay calm and if you havent done so, time to retain an attorney. My wife and i legally separated in March and but before that, last summer she signed the papers then decided to reconcile (sort of). When that didnt work, we went full bore and became legally separated.

I think I did allright but had to stay calm through out. Remember this, It is NOT fair since she left the marriage but that doesnt matter. Our province is a NO fault province so it doesnt matter at all who did what. She is entitled to half. The only thing I would not budge on was MY pension which I kept.

Its a really good one and I simply didnt feel that she was entitled to it although , legally she was.

We havent really talked about divorce and we will cross that bridge when either of us is ready to move on to a legal relationship. If she allows him to move in with her, then I will broach the subject of divorce.

Its NOT pleasant Islander. I know its only a piece of paper but when I saw my name on the paper vs her, IDK how to explain it, it was really tough.

Hang in there but remember , NOW is the time to REALLy keep your cool. Protect yourself.

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