So much for the warm and fuzzy. Wife was back to her distant approach over the weekend. We ended up having my mom over for dinner and my wife basically ignored her the whole time. Not sure if my mom noticed or not, but I thought it was pretty rude.
Over the weekend, my wife pretty much kept to herself. She went to the gym twice and did not invite me to go with her. She mentioned that she was going and I did not offer to tag along. I figure if she doesn't ask then she doesn't want me to come along.
Got my morning email from her this morning and she was back to her cryptic self again...
kids are up and are on the bus. No Hi, no have a nice day, nothing.
I need to book my summer vacation time off from work. Have asked her 3 or 4 times what I should be considering as time off. Asked her again this morning and no response. I am really getting tired of her approach to our life. The WAW has all teh control, can say and do whatever they want and we just have to tag along for the ride. Yet anytime that we do something like that we are seen as being controlling and confirming why they are so right in their reasoning to walk away.
I really wonder how much longer my wife can keep up with this approach to our marriage. If she is really unhappy with where she as it in life, why doesn't she just go? If I am that horrible a person and the OM is so wonderful, then why not go be with him.
Anyway, just venting. I have not changed from my overall approach and have not asked her for an update on either our relationship or the OM. Will keep being positive and upbeat in spite of it all. I am currently just finishing up my work day, but have no real interest in going home and living out another episode of our fake marriage.
