Karma, my first reaction is that I agree with your friend.

I actually do not have a reason to worry right now, but I know that one thing I will make SURE is in the D agreement is that W cannot take D away any sort of distance.

It has nothing to do with whether this will make W come back, pull away or something inbetween.

It has to do with my rights as a father and my committement to my D.

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That i should fight every tiny issue


This is NOT a tiny issue.

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Making my wife suffer so that she can realize is definitely against my principles.


It's not about making your W suffer. It is about giving your D her father in her day to day life. It is about giving YOU your D in YOUR day to day life.

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She'll just end up resenting me more


I don't know if this is true or not. But I say "though sh!t."

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