Return i understand where your coming from i really do and the dressing thing isn't a big issue just kinda embarrassing but it is what it is if she has no self respect thats her prob. As far as the car goes i am a supervisor in a criminal investigations division for a major law enforcement agency. She was warned several times about drinking and driving and letting the insurance lapse on a 40,000 dollar car that is in my name as well as insured in my name. if she gets into an accident drinking i could be sued for everything i have as was a have employment repercussions. Its not always cut and dry as everyone thinks. When adults behave like children they have to be treated like children; therefore the car was taken away. Now will she ever come out of this fog who know and at this point who really cares its her life but i cant risk my career and financial standing to save her from herself. As fair as the girl i was talking about goes she is just a friend a wonderful person and is a rn at a local trauma center. there is no sex and she knows everything about my situation. She is from a very religious back ground and probably will be no sex unless a serious relationship or marriage. Its just frustrating that all these waw never wanna discuss your marriage until someone better replaces them.
