9, deciding what to respond to and what not to respond to, that is up to you.

My advice, BE CONSISTENT.

You seem to go back and forth on what your plan is. You need to decide what YOU are comfortable with, and stick with it.

Don't react to her response so quickly and change YOUR actions based on HER actions.

Now, if something is clearly NOT working, change course.

But this all takes time, and flipping back and forth will never give you any gauge if things are changing, what has worked, what hasn't, etc.

How does it go?

CONSISTENT CHANGE + TIME = PROFIT?

Something like that...

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.