Detach Dog

[ninelives]

Need just a little advice.

I havent responded much to her texts and I dont want to really know anymore about the OM and what they are doing.

Am I making things worse by not responding to her texts. Since our argument a week ago, I decided that I dont want to be on the rollercoaster anymmore and so that is why I have not contacted her and only responded to about every 3rd text.

For example; When she asked me if she thought oldest son liked the concert. I didnt respond. I felt a "hole" from not being there with them. I dont know if she was rubbing in a little or just wanted to talk. Those texts are followed up by angrier ones that dont seem appropriate to me since I have not really given her cause to be angry at me. I simply havent given her any ammunition to be upset with me. Okay, so my son got a small rash on his face, I will address it but he has had it before, it is not a health risk and he didnt really tell me about it.

I guess Im just getting tired of trying to figure her out. Is this truly where she wants to be at this stage of her life?

Her birthday is on Sat and mine is on Monday. Im getting on my bike on Friday after school and heading down South again, Im not going to tell her where Im going and I am going to ask her If she can keep youngest son on the MOnday while Im until I get back at around 8:45, when the ferry lands.

Me and the boys can celebrate then with some cake and that should be enough for me. ( Im not big on birthdays and last year I did a similar thing, I was gone to the city and didnt tell her where I was. She sent me a message on facebook,

" Happy Birthday, Wherever you are"

Just want to make sure that I am not being rude to her. I dont think I am , just trying hard to detach and GAL.

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