John, It's just such a good idea to work through a whole current relationship before starting on a new one. Know it's so difficult to stay true until it's truly over, but any chance for the benefit of all, especially this wonderful new lady and her baby, that you could handle a friendship with this new lady and keep dbing until it's utterly clear? You would be acting excellent to that new lady. Any person of integrity will respect that you want to be sure your marriage is ended and you are divorced before starting something new and will wait. Having a friendship with her is the only way you will know if this is "stars in your eyes" or potential for the real thing. Only time and experience with a person, and so much better if the sexual experience waits till your free, can determine if you really have the basis for a good new relationship. Know this may sound rather Puritan but it is true.
me: 57 H: 54 M: 18 y Affair over on Dday: 6/99 Never split-up but it was a hard road D: 38 GD:18 I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!
