My friend was b!tching about his W and kids and these "stupid" family functions. I told him I would give an arm to be able to complain about this stuff again. Take every moment and cherish it because you never know when you don't have them anymore. Of course most of us don't get that till it is too late. I hope he heard me.
I have been humbled by all this, that is for sure.
2Step, I'm quoting your words to you. They are your words friend. AMAZING POV IMO.
This is what you need to remember every time you look in the mirror. THIS is what motivated me! You hit a nerve on this one buddy.
This is the beginning of change. Believe it or not, this is what separates the Men from the boys; Women from the girls. You humbly acknowledge what you lost. Who cares whose fault it is? Bottom line is, you accept it. Now you better yourself. Don't sad sack in it, but rejoice in your mistake, up to her to figure out hers. KNOW you will become better and stronger. If you feel this way and you work on what you need to do for YOU; Who knows if she will see it, but your chances are higher. Better you feel this way, than have to have her point it out to you. This is a huge coming to the light man.
This is admitting your deepest fear and regret; now better yourself and life for a second chance. This chance includes your Wife or someone else. It doesn't matter at this point, just better YOU. IF she likes the new you, she will come to you.
Nice to see these words from you. There is hope...just keep that B!tch hope locked in the closet til you can handle her
AK:
Thanks for stopping by my thread man, I have always read your post on Denver's thread and enjoyed them. I appreciate the kind words.
KM:
Anytime man. I like your questions they keep me thinking.
ZEN:
Nice to see you back. I am not holding on to anything really but I do still feel I am not sure any of us stop. I would imagine with time it becomes less and less until you feel nothing. I am happy to report it is in that direction that I am heading.
