ooohweee what'sup wit that

[zengypsy]

2, well I have been obviously on hiatus from these boards for months now. I, too needed a break and there is really nothing to report on my end.

I just caught up and see you are still teetering on the roller coaster ride. You want to get off but you keep getting pulled back on. I'm sure it's hard to detach fully when your X keeps calling you. I fully think that we are all Plan B when their lives suck and I will not be Plan B for anyone. If your life [censored], quite rankly, I don't wanna hear about it. The only person who holds your fate is you. You made the choice to go, so if the grass isn't greener out there as you thought...oh well.

My STXH has never said his life [censored] since he left; he's always been "good" or "doing well". Ok, glad it's all working for you! I mean he would NEVER lead me to believe otherwise. And once my D is final in a few weeks, I'm not quite sure at this juncture I can and want to be friends with someone like him.

We all deserve a person who will meet us at the 50 yard line, to walk beside us and not in front or in back of us. I don't think our WAS's will ever get to the point of healing we have done. We are miles ahead of them and I've always said 2, it doesn't matter how or why we got here, we did and when our S's left, we really didn't have to do anything.

You are handling your interactions well. Keep up the good work.