MINDFULL... Time to proceed w/the Big D...

[mindfull]

Hi Sleepy -

It's good to hear from you! I'm so glad you're doing well!!! I remember you, for sure, because it ticked me off that someone "kind of" ran you off w/some judgmental comments. GOD

I have been doing spectacular. The boys and I, too, rented a home. It's a nice (enough) 4-bedroom 2-story w/a pool, within blocks of their school, and minutes from the soccer fields that I drive back and forth to non-stop!

The STBX and I have done "okay" w/settling most things. We have custody and visitation finalized, and some financial stuff. We're due to be finalized on Thursday, but as the date nears, I keep getting more surprises in my email, requests for relief, temporary order requests to be revoked, etc... He's such an as$! My L is VERY good. He keeps telling me to calm down. We can prove most of it out... And, I actually may end up better. I'm just so ready to be done. It appears they may finalize us, w/a separate trial date for some financial stuff. I can't believe STBX is going down this road, as I gave him a huge "out" w/a very generous settlement agreement.

I guess I should be thankful that I've only had a week of anxiety of stress during this whole part of the process.

I'm still dating Fergie! He's amazing! He is a complete success story, as well!

The kids are good, too. They've adjusted to the visitation schedule nicely. They see STBX every other weekend, and every other Monday and Tuesday. S14 just became a State Champion in track, and S11 is still a rock star goal keeper for his club team. D19 is still, well, cute, and a bit less of a pain!

I'm glad you're out dating. It certainly helps the self-confidence!

I'm so glad that you checked in. I'm going to see if you posted an update.



AND... Hi to everyone else! I miss you! I've been posting elsewhere, but still miss seeing some of you here!