Some great quotes in your signatures. Yes, is the book you mention Should I stay or should I Go ? I have read half of it. I gave it to my W for her to read, I plan to nook or kindle it for myself also. I It actually seems like a logical idea. Seperation with a plan instead of just limbo. We are spending nearly no time together and really only discussing the children I guess that would put me in the LRT, or going dark phase. She feels she is trying.....but like trying to heal, it is all in her head. My W doesn't want to be married but can't answer the question if she wants a divorce. She had an A, she suddenly senses her mortality, finally wants to do things i have wanted to do for years, she is angry resentful, trying to make up for the teen-21 life she didn't have. Our Seasonal where she plans to spend all her off time is open until the end of october. Maybe that is a good seperation time frame. Pro Marriage MC Thursday I have a controlled seperation plan/contracted drafted and editing to work through with MC.
So If anyone has any input here or reference to old threads that may help that would be awesome.
