Scared......That was rather harsh.and I'm sorry. I have read your posts.
I was raised by an alcoholic father.. A successful, loving Husband and Father to one that turned to the bottle to the point of suicide, so when i see someone turning to alcohol for a solution to their problems it hits me square in the gut. So I respond from a child / teenager / young adults point of view. It wasnt pretty...and to this day I still wonder if there was something I could have done, said, etc. to have prevented his death. Please think of your children, you dont want to teach them these values. Show them a strong postivite father, they are watching.