HI there, Thanks for the responses. I do know the answer. Doing it and turning my life upside down again is another story. This will probably mean I loose my home as well. She still owns 1/2 of it and it should have been sold by court order 3 years ago when my youngest turned 18. She wouldn't force the sale because our 2 youngest and a grandchild are still living here.
Even my youngest son, 21 in August, said to me the other day when are you going to dump mom and find a another woman.........
Loyalty, honesty, integrity, respect. It is near impossible to find anyone who understands these values and can live their life by them anymore. Am I asking to much ? DavidA
Clearly, you are asking too much of HER...but don't kid yourself and think she's representative of most women. She is NOT. You are entitled to decent treatment but you have not gotten that from her. Yet you keep repeating the same behavior, expecting different results. That's the definition of insanity. AND your own kids are learning the wrong things from you. Model the morals you speak of, like respect. Start with self respect and teach your son what that looks like. She's been out of your life for some time. If she promised you nothing, what is it she expects? Move on.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
