Honestly, we haven't discussed the relationship at all. He's been more attentive (helping around the house, helping out when I hurt my ankle and then this past week when I had to have a biopsy he was right on it by asking if/when I needed anything). His brother spent the weekend here and took the spare bedroom, I made it known that I wouldn't be adverse to my husband sharing our room and he took me up on it two nights during which time we were intimate (earlier in the day I leaned over and whispered in his ear about staying with me and what we could do if he did and he was interested and smiling). When his brother left he went back to the spare room. There's been no relationship talk at all between us but I read in the DB book to avoid that kind of conversation. I did make a followup appt with the therapist and she asked me if I was adverse to both of us having a joint session - I'm not, but I personally think he should have a few more by himself before we go together again. He's been on the anti-depressants one full week now and got a testosterone shot this morning so I expect this next week will go back to the 'feeling good enough to flirt' week. I will also mention that he spent a lot of time with our 12 yr old daughter Saturday playing, wrestling, and just having a good time with her - something he heasn't done in a really long time.
I"ll reread the GAL and see what I can come up with and I'll check out the sex starved M book.

Thank you for any/all responses!
Liz



Me: 41
H: 39
1 daughter born 1999
T: 21
M: 19 this July
Discovered EA w/OW: 02/06/11