Thanks! He actually called tonight to let me know the name of a friend's new baby and to ask how the kids were (as if they'd been sick or something..D has been crying for him lately, so that may be why he asked). D wasn't interested in talking, so I gave him a quick update and said bye/had her say bye.

I think the upcoming vacations will be good for all of us. I will plan on keeping my comments Weds pretty much to what I said above. If he's pushing for us to stay here, I do want to know if OW would be a part of the time he spends with kids and what the financial plan would be. Otherwise, whatever, it's his life. A week from now I will start 2 weeks of family visiting/travelling and minimal contact. I'll have to see if I can refrain from sending pics/updates.


Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible.
--Stanislaw Lem