A litmus test of sorts. I hear you. PH level still high, eh? wink

That was my reasons for writing letters and testing my W, as well. I just needed to be able to get to an emotional point where I could move on. I needed "proof" that there was nothing left.

Imagine how it feels to our spouses as we continue to prove to them that our Ms aren't worth saving.

No judgment. About a month ago, I got to where you are now. Still just putting one foot in front of the other. But it's getting better and it's getting easier.

Keep us updated on your GAL. We can share ideas, maybe. For example, I had a great time at a wine tasting event. smile