He has left me AGAIN!

[25yearsmlc]

the most important question there is how to get rid of the anger...Not so easy.

What worked for me was that I finally got sick & tired of being sick & tired. The anger I felt was consuming ME. It was also keeping me from being really present for our children, and that wasn't fair. And I just felt like crap for too long. I wanted to do anything to stop feeling so much pain.

So I worked on letting go of the anger. Has nothing to do with condoning the WAS or h, it's just about not letting our lives getting sucked in by the anger we feel.

Once you see that the anger hurts you more than it affects him, it gets easier to let go of it.

Your "success" at life cannot be measured by HIS misery. Do you understand that? It's crucial for you to get it.

Your happiness = your success, and happiness is ALL up to you. Yes it is, it's NOT about him. You are in charge of your life possibly for the first time in years...

Create a life for you that makes you feel at peace, and inner contentment. You'll get a lot out of life when you put THAT out into the universe. Trust us on that.

First off, try turning your pain & anger over to God. And then, don't take it back from Him. Leave it in HIS hands and start enjoying a life unemcumbered by anger and pain due to someone else's choices.
Now it's all about YOU.

Good luck