at Retrovaille my h broke down and cried about the damage he had done and how worried he was that he'd never get the R's back with our kids.
I was very moved. A friend of mine, whom I shared this with, insisted that I rub it in more to h and demand that he fully accept how HE had DONE ALL THIS DESPITE THE WARNINGS and blah blah blah...she was unbelievably unforgiving...I don't see her in the same light to this day.
My h rarely cries. It made a big impact on me. For lack of a better way of saying this, I "needed" to know he "got it". Finally, I knew.
Not saying it's the same for you but you know your h better than anyone else.
Is this unusual for him? If so, take note. He's getting something...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016