empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[canadianMrs.]

Wow. Just spent the last hour with my H while he cried. He is a mess. He didn't say anything about us, mostly about the kids and how hard it will be when we move away.
He said he knows he shouldn't get any sympathy because he caused all this. It was very hard to watch. For 10 minutes we actually held each other and cried together. Then I pulled myself together and just sat beside him for the rest of the time.
This is from my cop husband who doesn't talk about emotions, and shows them even less.