I checked the phone records for my D14 and found that my XW tried to call her once during the last 60 days and had sent 1 text in the last 60 days…………….I must say that this angers me the most and it takes all I have to not blow my XW out of the water on this point.
Why not?
Why not blow her out of the water? MHL?
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My son is also in pain and suffers silently most of the time.
We LEARN not to provoke, or push when it comes to our wants and desires, and THAT is good. We teach ourselves to be...dependant upon ourselves, internal validation, self esteem and respect.
IF she is needed in your children's lives, MHL, why aren't you blowing up at her. There are no punches to be pulled here with her. There is no marriage to salvage with her, so saying you can do what needs to be done for your children.
And the poor me crying time of hers? Best time to hit them, make the crocodile tears real ones.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
