Pickle - You are exactly correct. After a few days to reflect, this is what I have taken out of it. It is only money. I would give up all of my possessions to save my family. Why would I cause tension over a few hundred dollars? I made this mistake several months ago. I should have learned.

AJ/Figg - Thanks for the suggestions on the car seats. I think we are going to go ahead and invest money in the expensive car seats. It will be used for years, and car safety is something I feel good paying extra for.

OMW - I feel you, man. I really need a rebound. I have to change things up. Just have to think what that will entail. I need new energy.

Thanks to those checking in! I promise to catch up withyour threads after journaling my couples therapy session this week.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated