Somewhere between filing and D

[MichelleLT]

That's a totally reasonable boundary to have. Things have to change with S and D, both for your mental health and for any chance of R. It's important to detach and let them fend for themselves, feel what it's like to not be in that R, otherwise they can't miss the unconditional love and support that was theirs to have.

Glad you had a good weekend. And that job stuff is going well! You have been busy busy!