David, You have been more than generous to your xw. It is now time to boot her out of the house. She has a new husband and he should be the one responsible for assisting w/her bills. Time to cut the apron strings and say Ta Ta.
It's tough, but she's milking you dry and at the end of the day...well, I think you know that her issues run deeper than you could have ever imagined 7 years ago. It's time for David to take care of David and let her new husband do what he needs to do about her. The Holiday Inn should close up shop...you done your duty by her....
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
