When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

THANKS!

Yes, he was in law enforcement for a long time before all of that occured. He didn't start to change really until about a year and a half before the bomb. I really hope this pans out for him but he's trying hard not to get his hopes us and I'm just being encouraging without being over the top about it.

He does feel like he destroyed everything good he had in his life because of his depression and poor choices. I don't baby him and tell him he's wrong, I don't reassure him that everything is ok, because it isn't. It will never be the same again but I think that makes it that much more important to face facts and build something new.

We'll see.....