Thanks for sharing all that your kids are going through. It is infuriating. The selfishness of these parents is mind-blowing. It is the one aspect of MLCers that I cannot wrap my head around and have not been able to find compassion for.
I do not have any words or suggestions to help you. We do the best we can to comfort the kids, help them not take it personally (how can they not!) Like you, I have spent hours holding a crying, hurt and angry teen. This breaks my heart more than my H ever could.
Forums have helped me so much in knowing I am not alone, and that their behavior is not about me. I wish there was one for teens to discover the same.
Hugs to you and the kiddos....
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