Andabelle, I agree. I cant be his friend right now when I am trying to heal, it only makes me hurt when I see him or hear his voice.
He text me again this morning and said: "I have paid an attourney in full. Cash of Course. I am really hoping that you use him also to save money and make this as painless as possible". I didnt respond.
Everyone says to me to get my own lawyer when I see his paper work. So I Will, unless for some odd reason I agreed to everything he has in his contract - which I highly doubt.
He is still trying to control me and manipulate me. I am glad I am not meeting with him and barely speaking to him (unless if its seperation-business-talk).
H is also so egotistical, he knows I am on unemployment, whereas: he has loads of cash he dug up out the ground when he left (cuz he hides his money from banks and government due to debt collectors from his past bankruptcy). He is such an A$$.
And he is most likely going to go broke again eventually since allready in one month since he left he has spent $ on the motel, he's getting a lease for an apt. in june, he bought a boat, he bought another van, he hired his lawyer, and of course he is most likely spending about a hundred a day on bars and food.
