Sounds to me like people think DBing is something you break out when there is an emergency, and not something you continue when things are going well.
I used to DB in this new relationship from day one. I knew I had to change my ways from the person I was when I was married because I didn't want to bring "her" to the new relationship. I lost my way back on Superbowl Sunday and have been having a hard time ever since. My problem as I said in an earlier post is I started listening to everyone else instead of just doing as I wanted. I have read and re-read the book many times. Right now I feel like a lost soul and am just trying to find me again.
