Affair (continued)

[25yearsmlc]

knitted,

I assume your point is that the ow is lied to and therefore not as responsible for cheating with a married man. And maybe you are also concerned that I'm somehow blaming the woman and not holding the man responsible. Well, not to hijack this thread but I disagree almost 100%. I'm NOT letting the h off the hook. But it takes two to tango and I'm always disappointed when I see a woman knowingly dating or sleeping with a married man as if there isn't a wife out there who's getting her heart broken.

We KNOW married men who cheat will always rationalize. It's a cliche-"oh, your w doesn't understand you? OH how sad...what's that? SHE isn't good to you? Your m had problems BEFORE ME, then THIS is NOT our fault, it's HERS... so of course you NEED ME?? And I'm not responsible for chasing a married man " Absurd.

Knitted, don't misunderstand. I'm NOT blaming the OW more than the h. HE made vows and he broke them, so I get that. But I'm tired of OW's acting as if they bear no responsibility. Esp when they pursue a wealthy man or a famous man and want money for it...geez, what does that make THEM?

(Arnold's Married mistress KNEW and worked for the wife and cared for the kids, for YEARS!.....On a daily basis that woman saw Maria and their family's time but horned in anyhow AND according to her, she pursued him and HE LET HER so they're both liars and cheats...long term deceit takes a certain type of rationalization that ought to scare the people who love them).
That's a special kind of cold Sh$#

Back to earth Chris, who was the OW??

And how are you doing?