T2SP,
I do recall your name, but not your old sitch.

I am sorry to find you back here. But I am too.

After peicing with my H for 3 years he has left me again and is now filing for a D.

I am giving up on the DBing and just looking for support in the process of D that I am facing.

I would be happy to check in on ya from time to time.
Sounds like you should apply the Dbing to your new rel. if that is what you think would be good for YOU.

How long after your D, did you and this new guyfriend start dating??? I find that many here have said, if you jumped into a new rel. too soon - it may often be doomed (as we all need ample time to heal). Not sure if that is your case or not???

Take Care,
TIPPER