I think the fact that "she is likely doing alot to validate her decision" is why I feel this tidal wave coming at me right now. She has spent the last three months building her case to herself without any opposing viewpoint. Her current position to D and bolt is probably quite ingrained and perhaps immovable. When do you know when it is too late?


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012