I think the fact that "she is likely doing alot to validate her decision" is why I feel this tidal wave coming at me right now. She has spent the last three months building her case to herself without any opposing viewpoint. Her current position to D and bolt is probably quite ingrained and perhaps immovable. When do you know when it is too late?
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012