now and then you Have TO GET A BREAK. Those days I used to pretend h was in the outback of Australia and unreachable. Somehow it kept me from obsessing, and Also i imagined him fairly miserable out there NOT having fun. Anyhow, I'd tell myself "FOR this week" there's nothing I can do or say as he's UNavailable so I think I'll focus only on work/writing/kids/GAL, etc.
It helps in spurts, and gives you glimpses of what life will be like when you really detach. It's little doses of it.
Also, still I must ask, what are your 180's? YOU are NOT DBing if you cannot name at least 2!!
And the GAL?? Hmmm? What about those? They are gifts for YOU & YOUR D'S...SHOW them the way. Their little hearts will be broken someday...show them how it CAN be alright. And that it is within their control, as it is within yours.
hugs buddy-keep on keeping on. There ARE some steps happening, nano steps?? We'll see. But don't underestimate the flaws of OM and the complications of HIS family....time will tell.
So now, she's in Australia this week. (Or the space shuttle, whatever...) What are YOU doing for fun?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
