OnMyWay: to who knows where?

[OnMyWay]

Remember, she is watching for you to slip into old patterns/negative behaviors so she can justify leaving.

I wish I could say that is what she is doing, AJM80, but I just can't read her anymore. I kind of doubt it.

After the other night where she pretty much laid it out that she's done (and I reinforcing it's all on her, as I am not done), and her actions are reinforcing that stance.

I had a discussion with SMIL the next day and told her I believe W is done. She simply told me she loves me and I'm to go ahead and move on with my life, leaving WAW to figure it out on her own. I think that is good advise.

WAW passed a kidney stone over the weekend and was off work today. She texted me to see if I wanted us all to go to see a movie tonight. D wanted us all to have a family night to see the new Pirates movie, but it was becoming challenging to get that to work out. I had given up on it - actually not wanting it to happen. However, it seemed convenient and WAW seemed happy to try, so I agreed for my D.

WAW showed up, commented on us having cleaned the house, and off we went. She offered to pay for her own ticket - I let her. We sat with D in the middle. She came home with us after to help put D in bed. I sat with her for a couple of minutes and she asked about scheduling. Then she tried to make small talk. I had mentioned I have "stuff" going on tomorrow.

"Good stuff or bad stuff?" she asked.

"Just stuff," I replied, very non-chalant.

That must've offended her as she got up and left without saying good bye or anything. WTF? I don't get it, but then again, I really don't care. My "stuff" is uninteresting and none of her business.

I did what I did tonight for my D. We had a great day together.