Punkin, My ex divorced me and I kept praying for restoration. He did come back for another 4 years. Yes, you need to grieve for the loss of your marriage but you need to take care of you too. During my h divorce, I went back to school and got a MA. This was for me and something he could not take away from me. It was the best thing that I did and did it for me while he was in his fog. GAL. You take care of you1 Lynda
