DG,

Just read this whole thread and wanted to give you and your journey a big vote of confidence. You are making such wise decisions and getting through the storms feeling the feelings but not letting them sweep you away. Kudos to you, Gurl!

Whew, what a lot of wisdom written by you folks. I came back for a tune-up, had a pretty embarrassing pity party on the page, blush, but am dusted off and remembering my DB aikido form.

I can understand how you feel let down by your H. You've come so far now you're not going to let him throw you off this great path your on. Would definitely be nice were he there but smart to know it's out of your control. Wish you the best all around, especially to hang tight to all the wonderful things you are learning.

Wish you well for tomorrow


me: 57
H: 54
M: 18 y
Affair over on Dday: 6/99
Never split-up but it was a hard road
D: 38 GD:18
I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!