Hi Lorie! I will be honest...in the month that H has been home it has really been a blur...taking things one step at a time...I will try and post any revelations that come to light concerning H's MLC thought process during this last year and a half as I think that is important for others who are dealing with the same thing to know. I think that everyone is different and every attempt at reconciliation will be different in how it is handled. I really am winging it! I will try and post what has been helpful to my R and what was not as I am able! [/quote]

I do think I want to hear about the MLC thought processes. I know every sitch is different, but it does help to hear these things. Have you read anything about reconciling after an affair or MLC?? I am worried about the "winging it" part.

HUGS and PRAYERS are going your way.

Lorie
W47 H48 D16
M20
H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW

When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.