Sending positive thoughts your way. P-A-T-I-E-N-C-E and healthy boundaries are your friends now to establish the basis for a true reconciliation. I am pulling for you my friend.
I am very happy to read your news. We all know that hard work lies ahead but you are a courageous wife and I'm sure that you will put your all to it. I'm rooting and praying for you.
Still got my fingers and toes crossed for you. Starting to cramp, though . . . . .. LOL
Too funny! You can relax them a little punkin!
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so happy to see you are enjoying the ride!
I wouldn't say that exactly MMI! I never have like roller coasters but this one has leveled out a little and it is a little less scary!
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Post a detailed update! We want to know how it is going!
Hi Lorie! I will be honest...in the month that H has been home it has really been a blur...taking things one step at a time...I will try and post any revelations that come to light concerning H's MLC thought process during this last year and a half as I think that is important for others who are dealing with the same thing to know. I think that everyone is different and every attempt at reconciliation will be different in how it is handled. I really am winging it! I will try and post what has been helpful to my R and what was not as I am able!
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May it continue to grow in enjoyment, strength and warmth and may you work through the insecurities.
Thankyou Dolphin!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
Hi Lorie! I will be honest...in the month that H has been home it has really been a blur...taking things one step at a time...I will try and post any revelations that come to light concerning H's MLC thought process during this last year and a half as I think that is important for others who are dealing with the same thing to know. I think that everyone is different and every attempt at reconciliation will be different in how it is handled. I really am winging it! I will try and post what has been helpful to my R and what was not as I am able! [/quote]
I do think I want to hear about the MLC thought processes. I know every sitch is different, but it does help to hear these things. Have you read anything about reconciling after an affair or MLC?? I am worried about the "winging it" part.
HUGS and PRAYERS are going your way.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
