Tipper, I agree with the rest of the forum. Why enable him? He wants whar he wants for his selfish needs. He needs to be friends and make amends after he is sober. My h wanted me to have breakfast this morning. I am leaving 1 week from today back to go back to be near my family. I confronted him about his dating sites and x rated sites and told him when he goes back to God maybe we will have breakfast. His response was what do you want me to say? I am not his mom. He needs to figure it out. Its hard, its horrible but we are not doormats. kee
