wife having affair - please help

[facingdivorce]

Yes it was only the once, but they are saying it caused problems for him ( such a pity )So i worded the response much like you said, wont do it again, i was upset at discovering the affair and him travelling with my children.

I Kept it low key as i just want to sort through the finances and formalise the child custody, without a team of lawyers draining the funds.

I have no hopes of saving the marriage, not just because of my ww actions, but im feeling like a was myself now, perhaps of the ensuring months that changes, perhaps this is the new status quo. Its all new territory for me.