Sorry to hear H can't be there for your surgery. But don't give up hope. Be consistent and confident, and don't let a downer afternoon cast everything in negativity. This too shall pass.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012