what's to talk about anyhow? Logistics of him getting his stuff? What's so crucial about that? Why would you have to be f2f? A f2f conversation will NOT lead to a "friendship", esp since you are not emotionally ready. In fact it sounds as if it'll lead to a setback.
Whereas Sufficient Time and decent sober behavior MIGHT lead to friendship (but not today or Tuesday or Wednesday...)
If it's legal stuff, hire a L. But if I recall correctly there's not much property. So, that begs the question, what's to discuss?
The R? He's an actively drinking alcoholic and you don't want that insanity in your life anymore. Therefore, discussion over. The End...
Am I missing something?
Seems as if you are making this harder than it has to be. It's NOT complicated. It's hard, but it is also SIMPLE. He can call you when he's been sober A LONG ENOUGH TIME. Maybe then you'll have something to discuss. Maybe it'll never happen. Regardless, you will be happy in your new life b/c of the 180s and the GAL and the meetings and your higher power. Stay the course.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
