Why do you need to talk in person? It only stirs up raw emotions and stabs away at the pain. He can say everything in an email that he needs to say. Take back your power! This is YOUR life and YOU get to make the decisions, not him! Too bad if he doesn't like it, it's not your problem.
I have no children and in a way it's a blessing with a divorce. I NEVER have to see my xh again and I've healed quicker because of that. Someday I will meet an amazing man who has grown children and I'll get to be a grandma.
Hang in there, life is better on the other side!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
