why can't you just see these good moments as gifts?
I'd bet the tears are about her father (this seems obvious to me). So what if they aren't for you? Geez, they're also not about OM.
Let's keep our perspective. She lost the foundational man in her life, quite unexpectedly and quite recently. That's a traumatic, pivotal experience in life.
Losing my father was a very underrated event. It was a big deal. Please don't let people tell you that any of this should be about you, right now.
Hope this doesn't offend, but you must realize this grief won't pass in weeks. Maybe not months. She's already doing better than I was at this point. Be her friend for now. Later on we can help you make things about you and the M.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
