Today is starting out better than yesterday. I really think it was the realization that W is spending all her free time with OM, to the point that even her D, sis and M are disgusted by it. It still hurts, but really, nothing else has changed between last week and now.

Today's plan - write a plan B letter. Straighten up apartment, move a few more things from the house to here, work on the house a little more before W makes it home. Once she's home, I won't go there if she's there.

I may post my plan B letter here for constructive advice (and hopefully not to many 2x4s).

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011